thankyou for your reply; i was joking about the celebrities but thank you anyway!! i will probably have a look! I think you and i are in the same...little boat...i like my oncologist -very straight down the line and he said i would increase my odds by 1% maybe with chemotherapy so
but it does feel like we are not on 'standard treatment'--i like the way you talk about it and thats what i do most of the time too--mixture of taking charge, self soothing and hopeful...
look no treatment option is without anxiety or difficulty; an acquaintance said her relative was told that chemotherapy is 100% effective and that must be nice to hear when you are going through this--
good wishes for your operation!