@Blossom1961. The idea of having a port made me more upset even than finding out I have mets. I thought about having to go to hospital, being in a hospital bed, not being able to go to the pool, having more stuff inside me (I already have implants). I also didn't want another scar.
Because I was so upset, I tried to talk to a McGrath breast care nurse, who fobbed me off. I then tried to talk to the hospital social worker, who also fobbed me off and told me to talk to my G.P.
At the moment, I am having weekly blood tests straight into my veins. I think I am now completely over being a pincushion. Unfortunately, this will probably go on indefinitely. However, I am still pleased that I didn't get a port.