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SandyA0902
10 years agoMember
Nervous about starting Tamoxifen
Hi everyone,
This is my first post !
I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer in January 2016. I feel very blessed as my cancer was found early and prognosis is good :-)
In February I had a lumpectomy and central node removal. That went well until I got a wound infection that saw me back in hospital.
In April I started Radiotherapy for 4 weeks.
It is now 2 weeks after I completed radiotherapy and I am due to start Tamoxifen for 5 years.
The problem is that I have started reading about the side effects and I am now feeling very anxious about starting, to the point that I have decided to delay.
I already suffer from anxiety, the thought that this drug will contribute to this condition is scary. I have also read about other womans experiences with weight gain. This concerns me as I am already struggling to lose weight. Then there is hot flushes, nausea, indigestion.....
I know it will be worth reducing the BC recurrence regardless of the side effects, however, I am not ready to face this next step in my journey. My courage is failing me at the moment.
Did anyone else feel like this before starting Tamoxifen ?
I know that so many of you out there have journeys that are so much more challenging than mine and I want you to know that I think you are all brave, strong and inspirational woman.
Ta
Sandra
22 Replies
- SandyA0902Member
Thanks Alsopt,
I just put my big girl pants on and took my first pill !
Fingers crossed I won't get many side effects.
xx
- AlsoptMember
Hi Sandy I'm about to start Femara and I understand your fears. I got the script filled 3 days ago still looking at that box of pills. I had lots of treatment and some drugs just wipe me so I'm scared I'm putting on my big gal pants tomorrow and swallowing that pill funny how BC changes us big hugs I figure if I have side effects too big I'll revisit for another drug and go from there welcome to the group you will find support here
- Brenda5Member
Sorry to hear of your bc Margie. Good wishes to you as you have your surgery next week. The mastectomy does take some getting used to. I thought it was just removing the floppy thing but they also delete the muscle under it and with the drains they put in it sucks down really flat and bony like a boys chest. It does eventually flesh out a bit but takes ages so be patient. At least being a nurse you know what pain meds to yell out for. Tip- if you hang your bath sheet high in the bathroom, opt for a lighter towel and hang it on the lower rack.
- Ann-MarieMember
Hi Margie,
Welcome to the Online Network. I am glad you have decided to join the group as you will find the support from the members is just wonderful here. Let me know if you need any help with anything.
~Ann-Marie
- jd48Member
Hi Samdra, I have mobstarted Tamoxifen yet (starting Chemo.last week) but might help shed some.light why some are being told 5 and other 10 years on it these days.
My Oncologist told me I will go on it and that standard practice is 10 years but more and more research is showing that 5 ywars has just as strong results so that at this stage we know 5 for sure and by the time 5 years are up tteatment guidelines may have changed seeing that new research and mew results will have come in by then.
Also, age would have some.impact as it is given to women not having been through menopause predominantly so if likely to have been through menopause in the early years of Tamoxi they may be considering a different treatment after 5 years...
- onemargieMember
Hi there
so this is my first post. I'm not a fan usually of social network but have decided to join this group as an extra support network. I had a mammogram, ultrasound, and core biopsy last week and Friday was told that I have breast cancer. I am ER+ PR-HER2- so far that's all I know and am researching this. I had the choice to have conservative surgery and radiation or a total left side mastectomy which I've decided to do.
I've always had a few cysts in my left breast, and also have a fibroadenoma which is a benign thing too and have yearly scans for this reason but this outcome has blown me away as I didn't even notice it. I'm 43 and have no family history of breast cancer either. So I'm praying this is early stage apparently wont know that until I have my boob removed and the usual pathology so am waiting anxiously for my surgery next week. I am a nurse also which I'm thinking now is not a good thing as you can know too much, and I have also nursed some really lovely women post operatively in the medical centre where I work. So here's to us all having a good recovery. Looking forward to hearing from you all. Margie.
- Kerr_KerrMember
Hi sandra
my story is very similar to yours. I started tamoxifen in March'16 and the only side effects I've experienced so far is a little nauseous and a feeling of being full all the time which means I can't eat as much. So my appetite is low. This hasn't been an issue because I wanted to loose some weight I hav lost 3-4 kilos since I started taking it. I have been taking magmin blackmores as I read others had found that this helps with aches and pains. So far I haven't had hot flushes but am waiting for them to start. I'm 46 turning 47 this year. Up until now my period has been regular but on tamoxifen it's stopped. We are all so different but I hope my experience helps you in some way. I figure that sooner or later we all experience menopause and the effects of that us women on tamoxifen just get it a little earlier. Hoping you manage ok.
Kind regards
Kerri
- annebirdyMember
Hi, I've been on tamoxifen for 5 weeks and so far, okay. I was getting hot flushes during chemo...so I still get those every so often but they are a lot less severe and frequent than when I was doing chemo. I'm doing radio at the moment (as well as taking tamoxifen).
As you can see with other comments, its completely normal to be anxious about starting new treatments. The literature on side effects is scary! But I'm sure that's just a warning on all the possibilities. I'm sure you would have had lots of warnings of side effects when doing radio too.
Remember if you start on it and have some weird side effects, am sure your oncologist/dr can modify or arrange something else.
- SandyA0902Member
Hi Jandy23,
Thank you for sharing your story. So good to hear that you haven't had many side effects on Tamoxifen. I plan to start exercising regularly and eating healthy so fingers crossed I have the same result.
xx
- SandyA0902Member
Thanks for your message Brenda5,Good to know you are doing ok on Tamoxifen.
xx