Hi Marjohnp,
how sad that you have even more to deal with after your husbands stroke. Life really is not fair. Being diagnosed with bc is scary, kind of feels like someone has hijacked your life, but there is so much help & support out there. Surgery is the first hurdle you face, trust the doctors & nurses to take good care of you. If there's something you need, ask for it. Be prepared, it usually takes two weeks to get full pathology results after your op. Can be a bit harrowing to wait but gives you time to regain strength. Hope and pray all goes well for you tomorrow, Tracey??