Well you made me smile reading that! Thanks for sharing so much with me, it's personal stuff that not just anyone can relate to but I feel I can even though it's early days for me. My husband says things like that, he wants to help me get through this any way he can but feels helpless. He doesn't realise that he's doing that already in so many ways and I try not to forget to let him know that. I've heard many people say your hair grows back so much nicer than it was before so there's something to look forward to! Hearing these things from people who have travelled the road you have just started is surprisingly comforting xx