Hi Deanne, always look forward to your comments. You have a way of talking that makes me feel at ease. I think acceptance has come now that I've gotten past the anger, I feel a lot calmer about it all now. I have ordered a couple of things from Headcovers but they haven't arrived as yet. Will have to chase up a wig, not sure where to do that. Don't want to be caught unprepared. Have been told about the workshops, sounds like a good idea too. I'm a very private person so going to a group thing like that will be different. Anyway, thanks again xx