Hi there,
oh I hear you on the gaining weight front. Felt like I was the fattest cancer patient on earth (slight exaggeration but that's how I felt) Because of an existing medical condition for which I was being given steroids, and because chemo made me so ill, I was put on very high doses of cortisone for longer than normal. I was so bloody sick, couldn't keep anything down but was still gaining weight! Ggggrrrr.
I went nude nut when my hair fell out. The wig annoyed me and I think for me, it was partly me recognising and accepting what was happening to me. Plus I rocked bald! Good luck with it all. Karen xox