Chemo, first round

Hi Breda, it's a weird time, isn't it? Not knowing what to expect from chemo.  The only real given is that your hair will start falling out seriously 14 days from first treatment.  If you have long or even mid-length hair, I'd recommend getting a short cut now (I went from hair I could sit on to a pixie cut!), so you only have short hairs to deal with when they're falling out - they get everywhere!  Once mine was falling out in earnest, I got a buzz cut (no.2) and then went bald from there.  I felt that it falling out was worse than being bald, in fact.  It was good to plan what I was going to do - I got a wig and scarves beforehand and played around with looks I liked.  It really helped that I was prepared and comfortable.  I also really recommend the Look Good Feel Better workshops.  

In terms of other side effects, it's good to get the first one out of the way, so you can get a handle on how your body reacts.  Everyone really is different with this stuff.  Each round got easier for me, though I know other people are the other way round.  My advice would be to take each day as it comes, keep a detailed journal (so you can see improvements or problems and talk them over with your oncologist) and be VERY VERY kind and gentle with yourself.  Chemo, whichever way you cook it, is an onslaught on your body, so give it the best support you can by taking note and acting accordingly.  

This too shall pass :-)

Best wishes and let us know how you go xxx