BC Newbie

Hi Kate,

Diagnosis was a massive shock for me too, I still don't think I'm over it to be honest.  Surgery followed by 6 months of chemo has just finished for me, and I'm about to start radiation in a week or so.  I don't really know if there is anything that will ever prepare you for chemo - and the reality is that everyone handles it differently - unfortunately my experience was horrendous, but I survived it!  My only advice is very similar to what the other ladies have said aready -   just take everything one day at a time, listen to your body, lots of water and rest and let your loved ones take care of you - they wil inevitably all be feeling super helpless and even if it is just doing little things for you, it will make them feel a bit better - which is important too, even though this is mainly about you and your journey.  And make sure you can have an open dialogue with your chemo nurses - let them know how you're feeling - lots of communication.

And one last thing - use the support on this network, it's awesome to know that there are people out there that understand and know exactly what you're going through and how you're feeling.

All the best with your first chemo - I'm sure you'll smash it!   :)

Gen