Hi Gillian, I haven't been online for a while so by now you will know what is the best way to go. I have always lived by the thought that when you decide to do something it is the correct/best thing to do at that point in time. There is never room for regret. From a motherly point of view my first thought was to continue on and try for your ivf retrieval. I hope that you have received expert medical advice and used this information to make YOUR final decision. Please let us know how you are going. Whatever you decide is the best decision. XLeonie