Ditto about the garbage on websites. Some people genuinely believe they have alternative cures ( I assume that's Pete Evans's excuse) but you usually find there's a remarkable lack of real evidence. I had A/C for three months then Taxol and Herceptin for three. Worked right through (a week off for my mastectomy). Yes I had some side effects but all manageable. You do adapt - something that would have floored you before cancer is just another little bump on the way when you have faced cancer, surgery and chemo. Lost my hair, but wore a wig and people only knew when I told them. Four and a half years on it almost feels like it happened to someone else! Two important things that have helped others - take one step at a time, don't plan too far ahead ( or worry about things that haven't happened yet). And ask, ask, ask. No question is a stupid one. Your medicos will appreciate that you are actively interested in what's happening and there are lots of people here with real experience to share. Best wishes.