Hi Ness, so sorry to hear you're finding it difficult with the chemo. There is a guide put out by the Cancer Council called Talking to kids about cancer. It covers a broad range of topics in relation to talking to the kids, helping kids adjust and dealing with the diagnosis. It might be worth you having a read. My husband and I read this before we sat down with our three boys (10,14,16) and spoke to them about Mum having BC. Hang in there and remember not every chemo is the same. Best of luck Cheryle.