implants

thank you ladies for your help in joining the group, it is most appreciated !
cheers, susanne

Thanks @Giovanna_BCNA :)

Hi @mum2jj
Thanks for letting me now, will follow up with our developers

Yep, @susmot1, you are in. :)
@Giovanna_BCNA, just tagging you to let you know @susmot1 had trouble joining and wondering if there is again a glitch. 
Paula:)

Hi mum2jj … I clicked on Join in your email, and then clicked again on Join when the restricted site opened up …  so hopefully this has worked !...     many thanks,  susanne 

@susmot1 there must be a glitch which sadly happens. I can't see your request.   I will send you a request to join now and you just need to accept it, can you let me know when you do so I can be sure it works,
Paula xx

okey dokey mum2jj !   I will be patient and wait and see what happens !

@mum2jj @Chorsell  may be able to help with you joining the group. A moderator needs to accept you in and it's run by volunteer ladies so it's not instant after a request.

thanks Paula ,and primek,  I tried to join the group but after I put in the reason why I would like to join and pressed OK, nothing happened... so perhaps the Join option is unavailable at the moment. In any case, your information has been such a help... in desperation yesterday I went to one of our large department stores and asked the lady who does the bra fittings to  just have a look at my breasts and confirm they are wrinkled, puckered and very hard … She confirmed they are,  so with her comments, and yours,  I now know that Im not going crazy and have not imagined everything.  The thing is I just cant face any more surgery, if I was to have them corrected, so I think I will just get on with things as they are..   Im sure I will get used to them as time goes by, and Im the only one who sees them (my 30 year old son no longer lives at home) .. and Im sure there are other ladies in far worse situations than mine, so I will count my blessings !  Thank you both for your comments, you have saved my sanity!

Hi @susmot1,
How sad and annoying that your surgeon didn’t mention this to you. I don’t think you are alone there. Connecting with others who had had this surgery was so informative and helpful.  For me it was the hardest part about loosing my breasts. That sensation is such a sensual thing to lose. Especially during intimacy. If you would like to join our choosing breast reconstruction group here is the link. We have quite a few stories and posts from others who have had implants. 
Take care and you aren’t going crazy. 
Paula xx