I'm so sorry that you are struggling Mel. You are amazingly strong and always there for everyone else, I wish there was some way to ease your struggle. Facing surgery is always frightening and I know you haven't had the best experiences in the past. Every single one of us understands how you feel! Great to put on a brave face for others, but you can't do that to yourself and you don't need to do it for us. You have been through so much and look at you!! You are amazing :smile:
You will get through this too. You are sacrificing your weary, battle scarred breast for your future - so you can have a wonderful, healthy life with your kids, partner and loved ones. I lost my dad but I know he was watching over me, your mum will be right beside you. Dads love their girls, if he is able I'm sure it would mean a lot to him to be able to help you.
Great that you have a bit of lead in time before surgery, a chance to cook and freeze to make your first couple of weeks at home easier. Sending you a huge hug. Love Jane xx
