the day before a bilateral mastectomy

I miss my natural boobs and have, even after 12 years, not made friends with my demonic 'foobs'. But I love being able to do my shirt up. The pre-lopping puppies were 18 F. That was really inconvenient considering the rest of me is @ size 14 . I can now buy size 16 tops and nothing busts the buttons. I'd turn back the clock if I could, but fashion is much cheaper now. Scant comfort,  but take the wins where you can. Mxx

Well done Jan. It's very hard. I made the decision and have zero regrets, but I shall always mourn their loss. I haven't shed many tears for them, but two nights ago I did. Just missed them all of a sudden and got really sad about it. It's a process this adjustment. Big hug, K xox

hi @jan61 try to focus on healing while you wait for the results I know it is hard. doable but hard. 
Great that your dressings and drains are gone. 

@jan61 Yes it's rough waiting for the path results. Wishing you strength. 

I am now 10 days post. All dressings and drains out. Pathology won't be available until after the 7th I think. I am hoping the surgeon will ring if he hears anything. This is hard. Not the hardest thing I have done but up there. 

I had a double mastectomy in September.  Didn't think I would ever get through it or over it..... I got through it with the support of family, friends and BCNA.  I still haven't gotten over it but it does get easier day by day.  The first time looking in the mirror is the hardest.  I ended up seeing a counsellor and she really helped my put things in perspective.  I now try to look in the mirror and tell myself that the cancer is gone, the scars are my journey and I'm blessed to be here. 
Will be thinking of you today and in the days to come. 
Please feel free to reach out at anytime.  So many beautiful ladies on here to support you xo. 

Below are a couple of links to help you find your way around the forum and also how to find a breast care nurse and how to order a MY journey Kit if you haven't got one yet. 

It can be a whirlwind when we first get a diagnosed.... Breathe and take it one step at a time. 

How to post on the main forum – use this link to get to the main forum and begin a new post. https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/post/discussion

 

Navigating the online community formerly the what and how thread.

http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/14879/navigating-the-online-community-formerly-the-what-and-how-thread

Breast Care Nurses

https://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx 

My Journey online tool and other resources. 

My Journey Online Tool resources
https://myjourney.org.au/hp/step5

https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/

BCNA Helpline 1800 500 258

If you have any questions, concerns or require any further information or support please call 1800 500 258. BCNA’s helpline will now be open from 9am-6pm Monday to Thursday and 9am to 5pm Fridays.  

 

How to understand your pathology reports

https://www.cancer.org/treatment/understanding-your-diagnosis/tests/understanding-your-pathology-report/breast-pathology/breast-cancer-pathology.html

Hi there. Nope...nobody is ready for for it love. I recall sobbing my heart out the morning  of surgery in the shower. then I put my big gurl panties on and my "brave face" and off I went. I cannit tell you the relief I felt having the cancer cut out. So a sad side yes. ..but a bright side also.
Hope all is smooth sailing for you. Kath x

Hello@Jan61 wishing you all the very best for your surgery and recovery. Take care of you.

Just keep in the front of your mind that you're getting rid of the cancer.  Best wishes