How supportive is your partner?
Hi everyone, I had my biopsy on Friday and the radiologist said it was most likely cancer. I was a complete fool and didn't follow up on the ultrasound and mammogram that was performed in October as the report said it was probably ok. Unfortunately it's doubled in size. I receive the diagnosis on Tuesday. As you can all imagine I'm pretty stressed out at the moment. I'm not sure if I'm being to sensitive but I don't think I'm getting a lot of support from my partner. (my partner is female š) On the Friday she came over, we had the most ridiculous argument and she went home. This floored me as I would never leave someone alone after a (semi) diagnosis. And tonight I was blown off as she was tired and had a few red wines. Really?? Catch an Uber. Iām not that far. My point is, what have been your experiences with partner support? I'm already worried. We've been together for just under a year so not sure how she copes with stress.
Where's the dimmer switch?
I had my heart ultrasound this afternoon. Got a hot flush right in the middle of it. Lay still! But I am sweating lol. When I got out, hubby complained he had a burning in his leg and it was moving upwards. I made him go to the doctor who thought it might be a blood clot so we were rushed back to the ultrasound place for hubby to have one. The receptionist thought I was back for another one so there was a short bit of confusion. Hubby came out and they told him to get to the ER straight away so off we went to the same place on the same day I was two weeks ago with heart palpitations and we got the same nurse! She thought it was me back again but we had to explain, no its not me this time its hubby. They gave him a Clexane injection to the stomach and we thought he might have to be admitted. This would mean I would have to drive home at night in the dark when I haven't driven in at least 20 years. Hubby got a bit worried when I got the keys and asked where is the dimmer switch on the lights and I was surprised its not on the floor any more but on the steering column lol. Fortunately they gave him a pill and discharged him and I didn't get to drive. Oh by the way, it was his birthday yesterday and he thought he might get lucky in bed but I decided not to with my fluttery heart atm. Good thing we didn't. If that clot had moved last night I might have killed him.