Hi @Hulos it is the most difficult decision to make, because there is no right or wrong, better or worse choice. I am in the same boat with you at the moment. I was diagnosed with BC late last year, I was a very healthy 40 years old, shock upset and lots of tears. I had lumpectomy with two lumps removed in one breast . I was given the option of radiotherapy or mastectomy, because I had lobula carcinoma in situ through the specimen of my lumpectomy. When I went to see a plastic surgeon, I was offered flap or implant. The surgeon said the flap procedure will use half of my tummy fat to reconstruct my breast, another half will be thrown away, it's only once in a life chance to have the procedure done. I started to worry if something come up with my another breast, I will have no choice, but have implant for reconstruction. So I expressed my concerns to my breast surgeon, he actually referred me to have MRI done, the MRI discovered another lump in my another breast. This lump wasn't picked up by previous ultrasound and mammograms. It was a total surprise for everyone. I just had biopsy done a few days ago. Now I am waiting for double mastectomy and reconstruction. I am in the process deciding what type of reconstruction is best for me. I am thinking more of implants at the moment.
Good luck with your treatment and decision making.
Lots of love and hugs for you!