So very scared

Hello.  I'm 31 yo mother of 2 girls.  I was diagonised with TNBC earlier this month and yesterday received the news from my lymph node biopsy that the caner is in there too.

I have tried to stay positive, but the news has just bowled me over and I'm finding it difficult.

I'm going through the public system and have spoken to a couple of Monash Breast Specialist and have decided to do a lumpectomy, but I was asking about having a mastectomy, just scared it will come back again.

What questions did you ask about the chemotheropy?

Not sure what I need to know...