I agree with the ladies; don’t rush it. It does seem like it needs to be done right now in the initial stage, but afterwards you’ll realise there was no need to rush so much. I’m not saying just relax and forget about the whole thing either 😆, but in the grand scheme of things a few more days (depending on grade and stage of course) won’t make any difference. But the consequences of your choices will be there for years, so really think about it. All the options mentioned by the ladies above are possible. I had a double mastectomy with sentinel node removal, tumours in both breast (because I’m lucky), skin and nipples were spared (left one needs to go though) and expanders put in at the same time. It was done by the one surgeon. They thought I might not need radiation, but it was always a possibility, hence the expanders and not implants. I’ve since changed surgeons, but both of them, including my radiation oncologist, confirmed that having radiation with expanders is not a problem at all. Just make sure to wait at least 6 months after radio to do any recon.
Now, all of this of course depends on your age, state of skin etc, but generally it’s fine. With or without radio, some women are not candidates for recon anyway.
As for post surgery, take pain meds, rest when you need to, and definitely do the physio exercises regularly. Don’t put them off for even a day, and continue in the months following. This is very important. And take a shower right before surgery!!! With all the drains coming out of me from both sides, plus the pain, it was a nightmare to shower! I was quite stinky for about 2 weeks post op 😂 (it wasn’t funny then 🤔). Good luck and don’t be nervous from all this info from everyone. It all makes sense in time 🤞♥️