Mastectomy
Just when i thought I was getting over the hard part it seems that I am once again at a crossroad. I have a big decision to make, whether to have a mastectomy or not. I don't even know how one make...
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Hi Loz
Like you, I felt overwhelmed with the idea of a mascetomy. It's 5 years since mine. I chose an immediate reconstruction, too. Another big decision !
I remember feeling very scared and going through a range of emotions when thinking about losing my breast (especially my nipple). It seemed such a major change to my whole life.Too many unknowns and "what ifs" to consider.
It's such a deeply personal decision.
For me, I had to work through how it might affect my self image, my lifestyle, my relationships, my work ( as a swim teacher) - and how I'd cope! I remember feeling comforted and reassured to find out the practical support and services available such as BCNA and the Cancer Connect program .
I learned it's OK to feel vulnerable and ask for help whenever you need it. I learnt to adjust my expectations, too.
When I discussed my options with surgeons, I asked lots of questions. If information didn't make sense to me, I kept asking questions. I learned to be more assertive.
I'm naturally a worrier but tried to stay optimistic by focusing on my future health and happiness.This helped me weigh up risks and consequences more confidently and eventually feel some control in moving forward with my mascetomy decision.
Hope you find all the information and support you need.
All the best with making your decision.
Keep in touch.
Di