Hi @Chance - sorry to see you here & that you've had a recurrence too - that's a bummer. xx
I only had a lumpectomy - but check out these two posts (below) ... they may help you.
We have 2 private groups that you may like to join ...... one re Choosing Reconstruction & the other Choosing to remain Flat. Check them both out - there should be pics of what to expect.
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/29-flat-chat-no-breast-reconstructionhttps://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/1-choosing-breast-reconstructionAlso check out this post for lots of info on the forum & other areas you may like to join in on the discussions! You can show off your garden, pets, art & craft & other stuff - or just have a bit of a laugh (we have a couple of funny threads too - as we need a laugh now & then! ;) )
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-new-online-network-members#latestTake care & all the best xx