Skar
5 hours agoNew member
lumpectomy
Hi all, I'm a 17 year old with a large breast tumour, I've had ultrasounds and a biopsy however they still don't know what exactly it is. I've got my lumpectomy surgery booked in for next week but al...
Hi Skar I’m so glad you reached out here. Feeling overwhelmed and isolated whilst going through this at any age is completely understandable, but adds an extra layer of complexity at 17 whilst you are trying to keep up with the pressures of year 12 also. Most people in our online community have felt the same way before their lumpectomies or while waiting for answers, and many say that the waiting is actually the hardest part. Once things start moving, it often feels a little more manageable.
While we wait for others to share their insights, I wanted to share some gentle and supportive resources to refer to in the meantime;
🌸 Online Network Young Women community group (connect with others on a similar path)
🌸 Lumpectomy info that’s easier to digest than hospital booklets
We do have further information on navigating breast cancer as a young woman, however I thought better to share those with you if they end up being needed once you receive the biopsy results.
You’re handling this with so much courage, even if it doesn’t feel like it. Please give us a call on the Helpline 1800 500 258 Mon-Fri 9-5pm when you need to chat, or request a time for us to call you here.
Please keep in touch as you go through the next steps - we are here for you 💗
Hi Christina_BCNA !
Ive sent a request through to the community group 💗
I have gotten my biopsy results but even then they've said they don't know what it is unfortunately, which feels so mistrusting after the hospital saying that would give me answers.
Thank you so much for your support!
Hi Skar , apologies I had meant after your lumpectomy!
It’s completely understandable to feel mistrustful after being told the biopsy would give you clear answers and then receiving results that were inconclusive - especially when you were banking on this information to know what the next steps would look like whilst you're juggling school & exams..... It's so important to feel like you can trust your healthcare so don't feel afraid to get a second opinion if that will help ease your mind a little. 💗