Once you have children its not just about you anymore. Every decision you make affects them too. Deciding to have children after breast cancer is an extremely risky decision especially if you already have a child. Don't get me wrong - I want to be pregnant again more than anything and always wanted a big family. It is killing me not having more children. Robbing my fiance and my daughter. But the alternative just isn't an option. My cancer was hormone fed. Making it likely to come back again once pregnant. I can't speak for all the other women who have had babies after breast cancer as every situation is different but for me it is simple. I will not leave my child without a mother. I won't die trying to have another and leave two children without a mother. My daughter needs a mother more than a brother or sister. My fiance and I - as unfortunate as it is - just have to suck it up and be happy with our miracle daughter. Which is way more than what other cancer suffers have.