hi.. great to read a few comments from everyone.
" Friends are like knickers....Some crawl up your arse.. Some snap under pressure......Some don't have the strength to hold you up..Some get a little sideways.. Some are your favorite.. Some are holey..Some are cheap and just plain nasty.. And some actually do cover your arse when u need them to...!! "
regarding chemo brain... some people can have ongoing cognitive effects after treatment.
regarding your friend robsue... sounds like she relied on you and now things are different. i hope you can explain it to her, and she listens. if not then you could see a bit less of her. relationships do change..everything changes over time.
looking after your health and your family, would be number one priority at the moment?
re lymphoedema.. i hope you get to see a good physio or manual lymphatic drainage massage person soon. i think there are some people who have better knowledge than others. i hope you find a good one.. kathy.