Refusing tamoxifen

Thanks for your kind words, Afraser. Yes, it is the question that will never be answered. I didn't say that I was taking alternative aromotase inhibitors, prescribed by a naturopath. Yet another false sense of security that I was doing enough. 
It is a difficult decision because I know of women who took that path without any reoccurence so far. Being HER2 positive probably goes against me as well as I've been told that that makes it more aggressive. Such a maze of decisions we have to make.