Quick Hair Loss Question

Hi, Im a little down the track from you and I can really say that your hair will come back, it dosnt define you, you are the person within all the time. I found my husband loves me more (if this can be) after having cancer. He will see the beauty that is you (hair or no hair), not your illness. Im now three yeasr past treatment and my long blond hair is back, I love to do weird things with it now and at the moment I am half purple. Plan for the future, endure the present as it will get better. Remember we are here for you.  xxxx. Travel safe.

Hi Tania, I feel for you and know excattly how you feel. I am having my last of 4 cycles on Thursday so am thinking of the regrowth stage now too which everyone says can be different. I have long blonde (coloured) hair too and did the same thing cut into a short bob and agree I did like the look. I cried when it started coming out and then it started clumping so I had my wodnerful husband do number 4 clippers. That lasted a week under the wig but looked awful. So even though it was the last thing I wanted Anthony shaved my head. I still find that a look at pictures of myself with hair and often look in the mirror and just cry. But then you have to pull yourself together as much as possible and think why we are going through this and the end positive result. My husband kisses my bald head and now finds it strange when I wear the wig.....but it is very hard. So I dont think I gave any advice, just take one day at a time, think of the end result and take all the hugs and kisses from our wonderful husbands. Good luck with the rest of the journey. X

Hi, first chemo next Thursday....and trying to not focus on it too much. Even though I know I should be concerned about the chemo drugs etc, I am having trouble getting past the hair going. My hairdresser plans on cutting it from long to medium this weekend and then a couple of days later go the short style in preparation. I am also going wig shopping tomorrow in prep. So trying to have some control is okay but then I stop and look at my long lovely hair and I just cry. I hate this feeling. I know all the 'it will grow back' and 'you'll still be Susan' comments are meant to help but they dont. Anyway enough complaining, just wanted to share some feelings and enjoy my hair for another few days. 

Hi Shells

If it's any comfort to you, it will grow back as soon as your chemo is finished. I was going through some photo albums the other day and was showing some snaps to a friend - it has been three years since my chemo and I saw a photo staring back at me - bald as a badger! My friend said "Oh you look like Uncle Fester!" I grinned and said yes, that was a bit of a joke - though I have to say I really felt it was a little hurtful, but there you go people don't understand if it hasn't happened to them - they can be rather flippant to say the least.

Three years down the track and it's a distant memory - so just remember to focus on getting well - I ended up with a lovely wardrobe of scarves - prefering the turban to a wig - it all went so fast Shells so hang in there, it's not such a big deal as the most important thing is to get better - Oh and when it does grow back - prepare yourself for 'thick' and quite wavy hair! Sending lots of love and best wishes x x x 

Hi Shells

If it's any comfort to you, it will grow back as soon as your chemo is finished. I was going through some photo albums the other day and was showing some snaps to a friend - it has been three years since my chemo and I saw a photo staring back at me - bald as a badger! My friend said "Oh you look like Uncle Fester!" I grinned and said yes, that was a bit of a joke - though I have to say I really felt it was a little hurtful, but there you go people don't understand if it hasn't happened to them - they can be rather flippant to say the least.

Three years down the track and it's a distant memory - so just remember to focus on getting well - I ended up with a lovely wardrobe of scarves - prefering the turban to a wig - it all went so fast Shells so hang in there, it's not such a big deal as the most important thing is to get better - Oh and when it does grow back - prepare yourself for 'thick' and quite wavy hair! Sending lots of love and best wishes x x x 

Hi Shells

If it's any comfort to you, it will grow back as soon as your chemo is finished. I was going through some photo albums the other day and was showing some snaps to a friend - it has been three years since my chemo and I saw a photo staring back at me - bald as a badger! My friend said "Oh you look like Uncle Fester!" I grinned and said yes, that was a bit of a joke - though I have to say I really felt it was a little hurtful, but there you go people don't understand if it hasn't happened to them - they can be rather flippant to say the least.

Three years down the track and it's a distant memory - so just remember to focus on getting well - I ended up with a lovely wardrobe of scarves - prefering the turban to a wig - it all went so fast Shells so hang in there, it's not such a big deal as the most important thing is to get better - Oh and when it does grow back - prepare yourself for 'thick' and quite wavy hair! Sending lots of love and best wishes x x x 

Hi Jacqui and Josie,

I think you are both very normal in your reaction of wanting to cover your bald noggins.The bald look might look ok on younger women but on us middle aged ladies,forget it.I even wore a bandana around the house cos I hated walking past a mirror or letting my husband see me bald.You can hide the missing boob with a prosthesis but your head is on show.It's a blow to your self esteem and confidence -not really vanity.You have to do what makes you feel comfortable so if covering your head helps you get on with life then do it. You are going to be covering your bald head for many more months and you don't get used to it -just better at covering it. I had some cotton stretchy beanies that I would wrap a silk scarf around and tie in a bow at the back- try that Josie.I liked my cotton bandanas when it was hot.The wig drove me nuts too after a few hours.By the time it's all over you will have both become" head management"experts.

                               luv Tonya xx