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PETA_WILLIAMS
10 years agoMember
Pain
Hi there just wandering if anyone has noticed that the pain increases ten fold after a glass or two of wine. I am not drinking regularily just when I go to my sister in laws I have two glasses ,but I have noticed the pain startes half way through second and then increases for two days I alos noticed if I have fish and chips the other night it did same thing, I had chocolate also. it is only in mestechtomy area and arm . ALSO is anyone else still in crap apin after 3 months My arm seems to loose all strength and the scar and arm starts aching horrendously. Is anyone else still feeling this. The second opinion doctor I got said it takes a long time to go, but how much longer? Iput a hot water bottle on area and the pan subsides, but boy it gets bad. How is everyones pain. This is an ache like a dislocated shoulder pain,which I had in other arm. Hugs Peta
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hI I did physio for 2 months I have swum, I have exercised I have been dieting I have been doing everything except hand stands. Whether I ecercise or not the pain is there, it is just, degrees bad or hell, and when I was seeing the physio she was bruising me badly that my husband said enough is enough as I was more bruised after seeing her than after the surgery she just added to the pain. And still everyone says I am not doing enough or just want believe me so I have given into to it and accepted this will be how it will always be. My Dad got me a hand bicycle that does not move and I have more movement and strength but with that comes more pain. I now just push through and just have broken sleep Hugs Peta
The Breast Care Nurses don't give a hoot, so I have begun a no sugar and no carb diet , still pain but not any i other joints. Thanks
- adeanMember
I'm 4 years down the track and still get pain , my mum is 80 and had bc at 35 and she still gets twinges. Regards adean
- nessieanneMember
Hi Peta,
I went to my Physio who has completed 2 sessions on my shoulder and scar under my arm! Feel soooo much better! Can even sleep easier. I just felt that after surgery I favoured my arm and avoided using it like I should have. The Physio really helped with releasing the knots and explaining the importance of scar massage.
I still have a numb patch on the back of my shoulder blade which is a bit annoying and my arm hurts when I open the heavey doors at work.
See what works,
Best wishes
Vx
- AnonymousNot applicable
Hi Peta, sounds to me that you might benefit from going to a specialist physiotherapist and your breast care nurse to support mobilisation of your arm. I developed cording under my arm following my mastectomy and found the gentle massage and stretches helped me to recover more comfortably. Sending you a big cuddle, Trace ????????
- iserbrownMember
Hi Brenda - love your honesty - yes it keeps giving and giving and we all get told that it will settle! Lymphedema sounds terrible!
Take care
Christine xx
- Brenda5Member
Six months post op and I still get pain on and off. It is most annoying and I am wondering will I ever be the same.?
Six weeks post chemo and I have no wish to eat chocolate or drink wine and I used to love both. My stomach is quite sensitive to a lot of things now and even a glass of soft drink I had yesterday I knew I shouldn't have had it as soon as it was down.
I have lymphedema in my arm and hand and while it wasn't too bad before, now as soon as I start using my hand a bit the swelling comes up and I have to wear this gauntlet again. Getting mighty sick of bc side effects but not as bad as being dead from it I guess. I shut up griping now.
- iserbrownMember
Do you have a breast care nurse? If so ask her if it is not too early in your recovery to go to a qualified remedial massage.
- iserbrownMember
You'll be fine! Hugs right back to you
Take care
Thanks I have felt pressured to be up and running. Yes as rule I don't drink either so I think I will go back to that and just not drink at in laws place. I think I have become extremeley sensitive to foods since the BC SO will just watch it and catalogue things that I feel more apin with. I have been massageing it maybe not as often as I should as I hate it and that is just stupid I know. It makes me feel ugly. Am seeing a psych about this but not quite there yet. aM USING gOAT mILK CREAM T moment. Thanks again Hugs to you and your recovery Peta