Gawd, the hair thing! It's such a minefield eh?!
Statistically speaking, a tiny minority keep their hair. I concur with your GP and breast care nurse. It is much easier when your hair starts to fall out if it's short. I went to the local hipster barber to get it all buzzed off when it became clear the cold cap wasn't working well enough to persist. There was no pity face, they gave me a huge gin & tonic, and comped me the whole thing. So kind & generous.
There's been so much about BC that's been upsetting but I wasn't bothered by my hair going. It was an interesting life experience to have no hair, and I love my ultra short pixie cut so much that I'm keeping it.
You'll have about two weeks after your first chemo before the hair starts to come out, so no hurry yet.
Get your legs, underarms & bikini line waxed about 10 days after your first chemo. You won't shave for months and months! K xox