@Harvey1903 I know what you mean. Sometimes these Doctors don't have a funny bone. I said to one Doctor when discussing radiotherapy I should just apply a really good 50+ sunscreen. He looked blank. My partner and I chuckled and we moved on. In his defence he was asian so maybe didn't understand the local humour. I have a really close friend who posteda snap of a tv screen above the urinal in a hotel and I said to him it was probably for men with prostate problems. Boy did I get a roasting from his son in law. I put him back in his place though cos I said I actually have Breast cancer so this isn't about disrespecting someone who has cancer. Its just toilet humour and a reference to the length of time spent in the loo. My friend sent me an apology. I just think sometimes people have lost their sense of humour around us. Yes we all get its serious but we have to find the funny bits to keep us going š don't feel guilty for seeing the funny side.