@Harvey1903 I know what you mean. Sometimes these Doctors don't have a funny bone. I said to one Doctor when discussing radiotherapy I should just apply a really good 50+ sunscreen. He looked blank. My partner and I chuckled and we moved on. In his defence he was asian so maybe didn't understand the local humour. I have a really close friend who posteda snap of a tv screen above the urinal in a hotel and I said to him it was probably for men with prostate problems. Boy did I get a roasting from his son in law. I put him back in his place though cos I said I actually have Breast cancer so this isn't about disrespecting someone who has cancer. Its just toilet humour and a reference to the length of time spent in the loo. My friend sent me an apology. I just think sometimes people have lost their sense of humour around us. Yes we all get its serious but we have to find the funny bits to keep us going đź’– don't feel guilty for seeing the funny side.