Triple Negative Metastatic Lung

Hi Mabel, I'm 47 with TNBC that has recurred 3 times now and while my recent surgery got a lot out and they can no longer see on CT scan the pathology showed it was positive margins and it's expected to keep coming back and no current chemos expected to help.  this stuff really sux.  Especially when you have young kids.  I have done a bit of research (as you do when desperate) and while none of it helped me as my tumour doesn't have anything that they can target at the moment, just thought I'd mention some of the testing I had done in case it might help you.  If your tumour has androgen receptors a very new approach has been to use prostrate drugs on it (this is not a standard test to get done you'd probably likely have to ask for it), on another TNBC page one of the ladies went from mets to lungs, liver etc to currently NED 2 years out.  If your tumour has mesothilin on it there is some new clinical trials targeting that.  If your tumour has high PDL-1 then that can help identify appropriate immunotherapies that are more effective.  I also had Foundation One testing done (cost about $4k) while it has identified certain features they do not currently have a treatment approach but I heard there is a clinical trial in Melbourne targeting AKT1 which I'm hoping is successful and leads to further treatment approaches targeting AKT mechanisms because my tumour has very high AKT2 levels.  you may well have discussed all this stuff and current clinical trials etc with your team but just thought I would mention as my oncologist was not up on this stuff and when I kept pushing for info has now referred me on to specialist breast cancer oncologist who has then referred me on to oncologist involved in clinical trials to make sure we are looking at all options and newer treatment possibilities.  Sending gentle hugs

Hi Mabel, I too am 42 with very young children.  I have TNBC mets to bone, liver and ovaries.
I know how you feel and also refuse to ever give up.

Hi there @Mabel sounds like you have plenty of support which is great.  I know of a great supportive charity brisbane north side if you’re up this way. Just let me know. There is one also called mummy’s wish (mummswish.org,au) that would be perfect for you as they support mums with cancer with young children. Hope this helps. Biggest  hug. Margie. Xx

Thank you all of you for taking the time to write to me. It is a dreadful thing to go through but you do get to see the best of people when you are living with this hideous disease. Thank you Wendy55 for the support recommendations. I have wonderful family & friends but it is good know other support is out there. Thank you all again. 

Hi @mabel,
so very sorry to have to welcome you to our corner of the world,there really are no words to write that explains what you have been, and are going through and with two beautiful young children to care for as well, I dont have your diagnosis, but have stage 4 with mets to my liver and spine and now it would appear in my chest wall and belly, but I am 62 and retired so a totally different situation, I can only hope that you have plenty of support with you children and also around the house,you dont saywhat state you are in as each state has different ways of helping, do you have a dedicated McGrath Breast Care Nurse to help you, just look on the website and see if there is one in your area,do you have community support,I am sure there are lots of lovely people who would love to help you.
You have the best attitude in terms of outlook and so pleased that your oncologist is taking such good care of you, its a very long hard road we travel with this dreadful disease, but just remember we are with you, we get it, please if you havent already ring the bcna 1800 number and ask to make an appointment with Dr.Carrie Lethborg, she is a very special and compassionate lady whose speciality is cancer, bcna have her services available for metastatic people and their families, she will call you in the privacy of your own home at a time suitable for you,(no charge) and have a chat with you, she gets it!I have spoken several times with her and cannot speak highly enough of her, just google her name and you will find out about her.  There is also a foundation called mummys wish which may be able to help you as well.
I just wish I could sit with you have a cuppa and give you a big hug, but I cannot so will have to send lots of hugs via here,if you want to send me a private message thats okay if there is anything you want to discuss, I am old enough to be your mum, my own son is 46 and my grandaughter 17, yes I know I was a very young mum,please, take all the help you are offered, now is not the time to try and be too independent, look after those beautiful children of yours and keep in touch.
wendy55  

Hi there @mabel. I had TNBC in May 2016 but stage 2a grade 3 no lymph nodes involved. I was 43.  I don’t have the same circumstances as you do but You sound like you are well and truly on the right track treatment wise and the human spirit is an amazing thing and is so strong and determined when it needs to be and it sounds like you are exactly that. Have you joined the living with metastatic breast cancer group ?  I’ve hesrd there’s plenty of inspirational stories on there. I’m so so sorry this has happened to you.  You are one strong determined woman and an inspiration to all of us especially me having had TNBC. Biggest hug to you and you’re family. Margie xx 

That's a really nasty position to be in, I'm sorry this has happened to you. Best wishes and hang in there. Marg xxx

@Mabel - sending you big hugs and strength - you've been thru the mill and some.  Such a shame that Keytruda wasn't effective for you :(    

Thinking of you and your family at this time xx

@Mabel I hope you find your positive story. Your certainly creating one of your own, one of fight, persistence and extreme strength. The fighting spirit your showing your children is incredible. You’re one strong woman x

@Mabel just wanted to send u big hugs xo