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Stable - schmable...
Hi pink ladies,
Clinic today - basically the disease is stable - schmable. I'm pretty down about it. I have had all of my hopes pinned on remission. It is unlikely that this will happen. So I have to get my head in the space that stable is a good result. The CT cannot tell what is active and what is scar tissue but basically since I started my weekly treatment 19 weeks ago, the lung mets have barely changed and none of them are gone - yes they are small but they are very numerous and even the tiny ones are still there. The axilla node is 50% reduced in size and the skin met is about 50% smaller too. I still wonder if the lung "things" are actually mets - especially as they do not seem to be reducing but am not willing to have the invasive surgery to biopsy them. We just have to assume that they are as the skin met was positive. So I keep going on the treatment as so far nothing is growing and that is a good thing.
I've decided that I need to take a break from the cancer world a little - disengage from it as much as I can despite having advanced cancer and weekly treatment. I need to get on with life. I don't want to talk about cancer anymore, I don't want to read about cancer anymore (hell I don't even want to have it anymore - can anyone arrange that?).
I am getting back into exercise - yoga, pilates and bike riding; back into my photography; very into xmas and new year and life with my beautiful little family while I feel extremely well. Who knows - miracles happen - so one might just happen to me - but it is not worth sitting around waiting - I just have get on with living.
Love and light to all of you. You are angels.
Amanda xx
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Hello my friend.
Yes stable is good, keep plugging away and hopefully you will eventually wear the buggers out. I like the analogy about martial arts and your new outlook might just be the strategy needed - by bringing some more balance and joy back into your life you might just outwit the opponent!
Speaking of Christmas - I can't wait! I usually have this strict rule about not putting up the tree or discussing gifts and writing to Santa until Dec 1 but this year I just want to bring it on. What the hell, why not decorate the house early and dance and sing along to Christmas carols? It's such a magical time when you have young children we should string it out for longer. I might just get started this week.
Tis the season to be merry
Take care
Ann-Marie xxx
Yes I like the Martial Arts vs Rambo approach!...very true and a good way of looking at things!
The lung mets are indeed an absolute bummer...a pain in the arse to be frank! So you're having a mixed response then? What does that mean for your treatment if anything?
The Gawler program sounds fantastic. I wish I could come with you! Sadly my only option is to go on a retreat as I'm in SA. I've heard they are brilliant though. I've been chatting to a lady on here who had lung mets and went on the Gawler 10 day retreat. As a result of the retreat she changed her diet completely (strictly organic/vegan) and lifestyle/headspace (less stress/meditation/visualisation etc etc) and is taking certain supplements. Her lung mets have now gone completely and her bone mest are regressing! It's wonderful to hear success stories like that!
Yes, stick your head in the sand for a while Amanda...it's very therapeutic, I can vouch for that! :-)
I will certainly keep in touch!
Take care my friend,
Celeste xxx
Hi Amanda,
I know exactly what you are talking about when you wnt to get away from Cancerland. Many times since my diagnosis I have stepped back to take a mental break from it all. It does become overwhelming and sometimes people think that is all you can talk about. They seem to forget that you are a person NOT a disease. My theory at the moment is that I am not important enough for the world to stop. Bills still have to be paid, groceries bought, kids going to school. We do know how to talk about other stuff, in fact that is what we would all prefer to talk about I'm sure.
Enjoy your cancer break and I look forward to hearing from down the track. Best wishes to you.
Take care.
Tracey xx
Hi Amanda,
I know exactly what you are talking about when you wnt to get away from Cancerland. Many times since my diagnosis I have stepped back to take a mental break from it all. It does become overwhelming and sometimes people think that is all you can talk about. They seem to forget that you are a person NOT a disease. My theory at the moment is that I am not important enough for the world to stop. Bills still have to be paid, groceries bought, kids going to school. We do know how to talk about other stuff, in fact that is what we would all prefer to talk about I'm sure.
Enjoy your cancer break and I look forward to hearing from down the track. Best wishes to you.
Take care.
Tracey xx
