Stable - schmable...

Hello my friend.

Yes stable is good, keep plugging away and hopefully you will eventually wear the buggers out. I like the analogy about martial arts and your new outlook might just be the strategy needed - by bringing some more balance and joy back into your life you might just outwit the opponent!

Speaking of Christmas - I can't wait!  I usually have this strict rule about not putting up the tree or discussing gifts and writing to Santa until Dec 1 but this year I just want to bring it on. What the hell, why not decorate the house early and dance and sing along to Christmas carols? It's such a magical time when you have young children we should string it out for longer. I might just get started this week.

Tis the season to be merry

Take care

Ann-Marie xxx

 

 

Yes I like the Martial Arts vs Rambo approach!...very true and a good way of looking at things!

The lung mets are indeed an absolute bummer...a pain in the arse to be frank! So you're having a mixed response then? What does that mean for your treatment if anything?

The Gawler program sounds fantastic. I wish I could come with you! Sadly my only option is to go on a retreat as I'm in SA. I've heard they are brilliant though. I've been chatting to a lady on here who had lung mets and went on the Gawler 10 day retreat. As a result of the retreat she changed her diet completely (strictly organic/vegan) and lifestyle/headspace (less stress/meditation/visualisation etc etc) and is taking certain supplements. Her lung mets have now gone completely and her bone mest are regressing! It's wonderful to hear success stories like that!

Yes, stick your head in the sand for a while Amanda...it's very therapeutic, I can vouch for that! :-)

I will certainly keep in touch!

Take care my friend,

Celeste xxx

Hi Amanda,

I know exactly what you are talking about when you wnt to get away from Cancerland.  Many times since my diagnosis I have stepped back to take a mental break from it all.  It does become overwhelming and sometimes people think that is all you can talk about.  They seem to forget that you are a person NOT a disease.  My theory at the moment is that I am not important enough for the world to stop.  Bills still have to be paid, groceries bought, kids going to school.  We do know how to talk about other stuff, in fact that is what we would all prefer to talk about I'm sure.

Enjoy your cancer break and I look forward to hearing from down the track.  Best wishes to you.

Take care.

Tracey xx

Hi Amanda,

I know exactly what you are talking about when you wnt to get away from Cancerland.  Many times since my diagnosis I have stepped back to take a mental break from it all.  It does become overwhelming and sometimes people think that is all you can talk about.  They seem to forget that you are a person NOT a disease.  My theory at the moment is that I am not important enough for the world to stop.  Bills still have to be paid, groceries bought, kids going to school.  We do know how to talk about other stuff, in fact that is what we would all prefer to talk about I'm sure.

Enjoy your cancer break and I look forward to hearing from down the track.  Best wishes to you.

Take care.

Tracey xx

Hi Celeste - you know I feel such a synergy with you and I will keep in touch - I don't think I have had a head in the sand moment yet so maybe now is the time. 

The reductions of course are good but all along the concern has been my lungs so for them to be the stubborn ones is a bummer but I just have this instinctual feeling that they are not active so that is good.  Apparently when one area responds and not another it is called a mixed response - not common but possible but hey - I'm the queen of the statistical anomaly :-).  

A lovely analogy I recently learned on the Gawler program was to think of the approach to healing as a Martial Arts approach rather than Rambo - i.e. rather than fighting with all guns blazing, the aim is to strategically outwit the opponent with your moves - I kind of like that - takes all of the energy out of the fight and into a different space all together.  

So - I am never saying never to anything - such a major healing process takes time.  I am one committed lady and will continue to be in everything that I do.

Stay in touch ;-)

A x

 

Wow - the gym!  Good on you!  I hope you have a wonderful Xmas too.

A x

Oh Leonie - I so understand your "headspace"!  I too keep want to keep in touch with my contacts from here.  I have to leave cancer behind a little too for my family's sake.  Fortunately my husband has sought "help" and regularly sees a counsellor which I know he finds immensely helpful.  

Much love to you.

A x

Thanks everyone for your kind words and wishes.  Stable is good - I know that - as Tonya often says - it is often funny what becomes good in Cancerland.  I have pulled my camera out again this weekend for my daughter's birthday party and had a bit of fun doing that.  For a few days this week I even almost forgot that I apparently have cancer.  

I won't forget my friends here and will still visit here but for now I need a bit of a break from it all.  I would hate to be on my deathbed wishing I had spent less time worrying about dying and more time living so I am just going to get on with living.  

I see taking this next step in my stride an important part of my healing.  I still believe in my capacity to overcome this disease - how that happens or to what degree I do not know but I must continue to hope that I can live a healthy, full and hopefully longer life.  I am driven to live fully by the desire to see my children grow until adulthood.  I don't choose to accept the statistics - I choose to tread my own path, to defy the odds, to live a life engaged, a life full. I don't know what is ahead.  I may very well die a premature death from this disease - if that is to happen - I want no regrets. 

Much love and light to the wonderful women here supporting and sharing.

Amanda xx

Hi Amanda

Sorry to hear that you are down.  Maybe a break from all thing C will help, don't stay away too long though, I like to read your posts + on HER2 also.  Keep up that Aussie fighting spirit! 

Take care

Dawn

Hi Amanda, Thanks for the update as I often wonder how things are going with you. I have to agree that stable is a good thing. It's great that you are doing the things you love. I have recently gone back to the gym & I know that makes me feel good. Yes nothing like planning for Christmas & I hope it's a special one for you. Take care my friend.

Loretta xxx