Hi Kathleen, I'm in sydney and I'm very fortunate to have a huge support. My family help me out with the kids, housework and school. My sister lives around the corner and is available at a moments notice and my mum is unbelievable. The mums at my kids school have a roster and provide dinner to us every night. I can't believe the generosity and compassion of people. Of course my husband is fantastic as well. I'm just waiting for the time when I can start doing the things I used to do and get back to my part time job which I absolutely love. Sue