Gosh @DebbieMc - you have really been put thru the ringer with your diagnoses & treatment & losses of family & fur buddies .....
Well done on getting out there & enjoying your Rock Chick status!! I am in a bit of a 'time warp' as well -
LOVING music up to & including the 80s/90s ( I am 66)..... there's not much 'modern stuff' that I can be bothered with.
Like you - I was shy & retiring as a 'youngie' - but now - I lead our local Ukulele Group & act a real 'fool' in front of our audiences to bring joy to others!! (We have 4 gigs next Mon/Tues at Old folks homes & another one on Wed) before starting a new set of songs for our next gigs in May!!
Keep acting disgracefully & keep 'em guessing ..... I have a buddy with 'F**k Cancer' tattooed on his shoulder ......
Take care & big hugs coming your way xxxxx