Hi Squeakypea, sorry to hear about your diagnosis at such a young age. I have been living with Advanced Breast Cancer for 6 years now. My secondary is in my sacrum and just before Christmas last year, they found some nodes in my mediastinum. I too was one of the ones who did all the right things and got it as luck of the draw.
It is horrible how random it has become in society. Like you say, there are always new things coming through the system to help us fight it all. You will find lots of helpful people on here all willing to listen, compare notes and give out information.
I want to wish you all the best with your treatments.
Take care.
Tracey xx