Nerve pain

I'm not TNBC,  but my recurrence was in a scar site from my sentinel node and was only confirmed when the cancer came through my skin, despite the area being ultrasounded and biopsied on a number of occasions over a period of about two years because I thought there was something wrong. I'm not in your situation; as far as we know the new tumour was confined to my axilla though there was strong vascular involvement and multiple contaminated nodes, so I can not give you much else but a big fingers crossed.

This shit is not fair. Are you seeing a counsellor? We can lend you an anonymous ear to have a vent, but a one on one with someone who knows their stuff can be very beneficial. I have found that general insecurity has made my somewhat mercurial personality traits see-saw madly which doesn't help me or anyone around me. Getting a mental health professional on board has been very useful. They can't fix anything but, a bit like this site, they can give you an opportunity to test drive conversations in an environment where no one is going to judge you and you can get a bit of a spiel sorted out which may help with many of the difficult conversations you are already having and will have to have in the future. Mxx