I am so sorry that this has happened for your Mum. She must be a wonderful lady to have such a caring and loving daughter.
I am not in your Mum's position but hope that some of the ladies on here with secondaries can help to reassure you that it is very possible that your Mum's cancer can be controlled (not cured) and give her a fairly good quality of life. I know that some ladies on here have been living for some years with stable mets. There are treatments that some people respond to very well. I hope that your Mum will be one of these people.
I hope that you have some support for yourself so that you can continue to be a wonderful support for your Mum. My daughters have been and continue to be a fantastic support to me but I am mindful that this disease does effect the whole family, not just me. It has been important that they have support from others too.
Wishing you and your Mum all the best and I hope that, with treatment you and your Mum can have much more quality time together. Take care of you too. Deanne xxx
