Lymph nodes

Hey, sorry for delay still here but now at funeral in NZ. Appointment was crap, i did mention at the beginning of the consultation that I wasn’t interested in chemo at this stage, with only 3mm in lymph node....however, she was convinced it is my only way....if I heard her say chemotherapy again was going to charge at her....got me so angry. People have the right to chose, the right to refuse and the damn right to exhaust every other options before getting blasted with chemo and radiation no? Anyway, she commented on expander saying hmmmm that’s a great job...really good....well huny I’m still in agony after 5 weeks no other advice. I’ve had more honest medical advice on here than I did with her. Maybe it’s me...dunno. Thanks for support peeps 😣 @Cazamcm you are brave as my friend 💪