Liver and Brain mets

OMG @Canisha - you surely have a lot on your plate and I feel for you. xx  All the best with the radiation treatment and chemo .... I sincerely hope it works in reducing the size of the mets and gives you a better quality of life, for you and the family xxx  take care - my thoughts are with you xx

thanks so much for your support

@Canisha that is terrible news and of course you are frightened. This is a shit of a disease. It is so bloody unpredictable. I guess that's why none of us want it. The unpredictable bit can also work in our favour--some people do beat the odds.
I think I speak for many who read your post and don't respond--WTF can we say? 
I don't do hugs or prayers but you are in my thoughts tonight. Marg xxx
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@Canisha, as @Zoffiel said, wtf can we say, except that we're here for you.
There is  site originating in the US, with members from all around the world, called Inspire. There a many different groups on the site, one of which is for "advanced breadt cancer". There's a lady on there who has metastases.  She had brain mets, has had a number of treatments of gamma knife, or targeted radiotherapy and is still alive a number of years later.
Thinking of you xo

What can we say except that we're thinking of you.

@Canisha , I am so sorry to read your post. I can't give you any advice . I was diagnosed February 2018 , finished active treatment and now on hormone therapy tablets. 
Sending you love and hugs. If I have anything to say it would be keep writing on here. We are all here to listen, we understand and feel your fear. Best wishes. Xoxox

Thinking of you @Canisha ,    Zoffiel was true in what she said."We don't know what to say "  but we are here for you anytime you need to vent, have a bit of a rant or just need a virtual hug.  We all get cancer and sometimes it is hard to talk to friends and family about how you really feel sometimes but we get it.  xo

So very sorry @Canisha. It's utterly and totally shit. I lost my sister to this disease and I'm now raising her young kids. Try not to worry about your children. You've done your best to raise them well, and all that mothering that you put into them will always be with them. You will never be forgotten, thought of daily and spoken of always. When your girls have kids, how they raise them will be because of you.

If you're worried about how they'll get on without you, can you appoint a council of girfriends who can mentor and counsel them as needed? I'm not in your situation but I've mentally picked out a small handful of friends who could 'be there' for my children should I not be.

Do your best with each day you have. Make memories, and hug a lot. I'm so sorry. K xox

My mum died 10 years ago when I was 17 from lung cancer, about 11 months after diagnosis. I mirror what kmakm said, you’ve raised them well and whenever you do leave this earth, they will be okay. Yes it’s awful not having a mum particularly for my own cancer journey, plus the big things like my wedding day. But I’m sure you’ve taught them to be strong, lively women and trust me they will appreciate life in a new way.

Ive seen a few women on a FB BC group who are living well 4 years after initial stage 4 diagnosis including brain mets. As a nurse, I’ve seen a lot of patients survive past their expectancy. 

Advice from both my personal experience losing my mum.. Just enjoy your time. Take holidays with the girls between treatment when you can. Tell them stories you never have. My biggest regret is not asking my mum more questions. 

I hope the new regime goes well and doesn’t leave you feeling too shit. Xx

thank you all for your kinds words and support it does mean a lot to me