Im new here

Welcome @JaneyB - this forum has been absolutely sanity saving for me too - everyone here is incredibly supportive, totally non-judgmental and as you say, 'get's it'.
Wishing you all the best xx

Oh that's lovely to hear @JaneyB! I lurked for a long time before I got up the guts to join. Never regretted it, it's been SO valuable for me. Incredibly helpful and supportive. I hope you find it so as well.

Yes, we sure do need to break down our goals into bite size pieces... don't want to choke!

Got to sleep eventually, but didn't get enough. Hope tonight is better. K xox

Welcome, @JaneyB.  Come and talk to us whenever you need to.  

It's past midnight here too!  Insomnia plus...  Trying to tick off my goals that my newly found friend who is studying to be a therapist set for me last week.  Meeting again tomorrow and I think we might have been a bit in the 'overachiever' mode when we met for the first time last week.  
Hope sleep comes for you both soon.
Thanks so much.  It was a big step for me to join this group and already my shoulders and heart feel lighter.  xx

@kmakm - the husband is snoring like a freight train!!

@"Kiwi Angel" Ditto! *waves from bed*

U r more than welcome @JaneyB - it must be difficult when it is hard to properly communicate with the people where u are - especially when emotions come in to it. U r always welcome here for hugs - u will be squished by all that u will receive from all the wonderful women on here. Most of them are just asleep at the moment - I’m having an insomnia attack. xoxox

It's such a relief isn't it @JaneyB?! Hang in there. K xox

Thanks @"Kiwi Angel"
Finally found the right page which had the 'join' link.  Much appreciated.  Appreciate the hugs.  Actually have a little tear to have connected with others who "get it!"  

Hi @JaneyB sorry I have to join us but there is a huge amount of support here. I think to join the closed group u click on a link and request it but some of the other ladies here will be able to help u better then me. Sending u huge hugs xoxox