Forgetting things

Hey @Angg66, don't be so hard on yourself! I was told by my oncologist to start using a brain training app. So I have downloaded the ELEVATE app. It is free and is a series of games that take about 5 minutes a day. I've gone from walking into a room about 17 times and forgetting what I was there for to remembering while I'm still in the room - WOOHOOOOOOO!!!!!  My capacity to remember things feels like it has returned to normal levels - don't get me wrong I still forget things but I no longer am driving myself totally stark raving insane by constantly forgetting things, and I do have lists of things to do on my phone and action alarms as soon as they go off. But sooooooo much better than before the app. Xx Cath

It is more than evident that you are not alone @angg66!  Because I forget so many thing I also use my iPhone calendar with 2 alerts and alarms. I have alarms for all my meds and supplements and anything I must remember on a given day - my partner’s sweet ’revenge’ for the constant alarms is to sings or hum the tunes - certainly makes me laugh & motivates me to change the tones regularly. Some days I’m so forgetful I turn off the alarm, finish what I’m doing ........ alarm task forgotten. :/   I am learning to make better use of the snooze button.  
I appreciate you must feel especially frustrated when forgetting has an impact on your kids but I’m sure they understand. My only suggestion, like those above, is to lighten your load and get other family members to fill in the gaps. And use your phones alarms and alerts. 
sending warms hugs 

Oh thank goodness it isn't just me !! I have been forgetting everything. I have a diary now but forget to write in that ..

We have a big old paper calendar on the way in to the kitchen. Every appointment for all of us, birthdays, even bird migrations gets put in there. 
You are like me now, just quirky. Its the way we currently are and the rest of the world just has to accept that. Hugz <3

I have one of those magnetic boards that goes on the fridge as well as a work diary and a home diary, it might seem like overkill, but if it isn't written down I will forget it.
The magnetic fridge calendar came from BigW and has been the best thing, space to write most appointments and other important events. I check it several times a day. 
It didn't save me today though when the diligently written list of all my medications with dose etc was left on the bench when I went to the hospital for screening for the Pallas trial. SIGH!
I took every other bit of paperwork.

Thank you all for responding, your advice & making me feel better. I was having a bad day & realising that I forgot to RSVP just made it worse. I need to use my phone's calendar more & ask my husband to step up and do some things himself. Thanks Ange xx

So glad to hear it isn't just me! I was diagnosed about 3 months ago. It is definitely to do with stress, distractions and changes to usual routines. I just put everything into my iPhone calendar with double alerts, even the littlest things. I guess it's all part of getting used to adapting to this new way of doing life. I'm determined to be kind to myself and not let forgetting names, appointments and everyday things get to me. There are much more important things I want to focus on. Anyway, I'm sure people will understand. 

I found an app when I was first diagnosed called Cozi it can be apple or android it is a calendar and much more it is free. I use it to keep track of what I need to do as otherwise I forget these days I am 5 yrs since diagnosis. 

I know so frustrating isn’t it! My daughter started high school this year and I completely missed ordering her stationary and text books! I am usually so organised with things like that. She started the first day and everyone else had theirs. They were supposed to have been ordered in November the year before! I remember standing in office works that weekend in so much pain (a few days after docetaxol chemo) in tears trying to sort out her school stuff and the staff weren’t very helpful. All the back to school stuff had sold out, the shelves were bare,  and I had to order nearly all of it in. I felt terrible, to my it was such a huge oversight, but almost a year on and I don’t think my daughter even remembers it. Be kind to yourself, try explaining and hopefully you get to attend with your family.

We all forget things when under a lot of stress. Ring and explain. 

If i fet overwhelmed I fofet names and lise things. I keep a diary with a week at a time view and tick off as I do thinfs and really important stuff I highlight.

Last  week I have  lost my reusable  water bottle, my fitbit, my house keys. I remembered at least where my keys were...left them in the work car after I had dropped home to pick up my phone I'd forgitten to take. All because I was tired....and I am in recovery not under treatment except for AI. 

Be kind to you. Kath x