Hi again Jean
Thanks so much for your replies to all! Regarding work, my job wasnt particularly stressful, & i did return between mastectomies. They had a return to work process, where by you could virtually dictate the amount of time you spent, but i was put in an even less demanding job within same organisation. Even that turned out to be too much, so i resigned eventually, after second mastectomy. My fatigue is always there. I havent gone back to work at all, and I'm on my own (my choice ), so financially its all a new stress reason! I play piano twice a week for a college, but thats it.
My suggestion to you is, access your income orotection and disability payout from your super, especially if you feel so drained. If you are with a partner it wont be so difficult as it is for me. You need to think of yourself and the things that bring you joy. For me, its the breast cancer group, friends on facebook and most of all, time with my grandkids. To me, these are more important than worrying if we have enough super or money to survive.
Hope that helps
Love to you
Kathleen