Dear Jenny, I've been in this world for a year ( I got the whole Advanced scene in one hit - 45 ) and my two cents worth is : try to not let this take away your joy and always have hope. I was very ill when first diagnosed and couldn't walk without a stick as a result of the bone metastatis. I am now a walker and a Pilates lady and I can't complain much about anything else at the moment ! It seems we might go through changes in condition and we are all different but we are in such good hands medically and there is so much research going on. There , I've had my say :):);) ! Cioau, Fiona , ox