Hello @Vivianna. What a terrible Christmas present you have been given. As you are already aware of the plan of chemo, radiation and surgeries I am guessing you have been given some indication as to the timelines ?
Are you comfortable with your medical team ?
Do you have family supports who can step in and assist you during treatment, especially with your son ? Whilst it is often an idea to quit whilst ahead and spend some quality time with your son, he would certainly appreciate it if you were to have the treatments (which are always improving and are targeted) so he can have you at his graduation and wedding.
Personally, I feel you are stronger than you think and being a Mum you will find the fight in you to win this next round.
Thinking of you. Please keep us informed. 💖