I'll say straight up that this is a vent. I don't think it would go down well in other places and might not here, either. I'm sick of hearing how strong and stoic those with cancer are, or are expec...
I do try not to have to explain more than once. I do try to do as much as I can (eg. happy to help with that extra event in the morning but don't put me on afternoons, etc). I know that people don't really want to know and that's fine. I just want to not be judged as somehow less worthy.
Thank you for listening to my rant and for the support.