MillyMolly
2 months agoMember
Partner Issues
Hi there everyone. I’m really struggling at the moment. I was diagnosed with Stage 3 IDC and had to have a unilateral mastectomy, chemo and radiation . Unfortunately my partner of 7 years was unable...
MillyMolly your feelings are legit and understandable
Though my partner/husband wasn’t there for my breast cancer he had passed away. it nearly broke us when I had cervical cancer. If it wasn’t for our GP who gave him the riot act about it. I discovered he couldn’t handle the thought of me dying before him. We were together for just short of 40 years
As for your EX good riddance. Though I haven’t bothered with finding a replacement. I admit I thought of finding a “friend with benefits” I don’t bother with that thought anymore meds fixed that. I do know a couple of people who have relationships like that, Someone that can go as the plus one on the invitations etc
you are number the 1 priority in life. Do what pleases and fulfilling for you
Absolutely. The excuses made for men here are so upsetting to me. My other half has been better than me at handling the changes to my physical body and mental stamina through all this. And he’s a bloke. An old Aussie bloke.