I am very sorry to hear about the impact neuropathy has been having on your ability to be independent and your quality of life.
My neuropathy came upon me in late April 2023, about half way through my Neo adjuvant chemotherapy.
I went onto have a lumpectomy, radiation therapy and another phase of chemotherapy and immunotherapy, but my oncologist thought the primary culprit was the DoceTaxel that was one of the drugs I had during my neo adjuvant treatment, prior to surgery.
Your neuropathy in the fingers sounds very familiar and please do know you are not alone at all. You have this community of people here many of whom will relate to your post.
I recall thinking I might not be able to do my own pyjama buttons up when I went in for my lumpectomy and later my fingers struggling to get my credit card out of my wallet or not being able to separate cash. I thought my sewing days and like you, bike riding days, might be over.
Fortunately I took great heart from an article I read about the same time about Kat Goodall, a young Australian surgeon who had bowel cancer treatment and experienced neuropathy.
Have you found anything helps so far?
At first I went to an oncology exercise rehabilitation program and then tried (as a beginner) gentle flow yoga. I feel that exercise, and the yoga especially, helps the circulation and feeling in my feet and my balance. Every evening when sitting down after dinner I would get very uncomfortable pins and needles, even the odd electric shock type of pain. This has really waned (it’s now 1 year since my active treatment finished).
The gradual improvement over time has been a comfort to me and I hope you begin to experience some changes for the better. I have been quite intentional about exercising in ways that keeps the pressure and movement on my hands and ankles, so I have been doing more swimming and seated rowing.
I can pick up things that are a bit finer now, and have been sewing. The place I notice it most is the kitchen and moving things around with oven mitts! Often unsuccessfully.
I am not sure if this resonates with how you’re experiencing neuropathy. It is very different for everyone but I am sending you big hugs - the side effects we didn’t anticipate can really impact us. I hope you too might start to see improvement over time.