Bloody hell @kmakm. I just caught up with your posts. You guys don't do anything by halves do you???? Thankfully all is well in the end. Isn't it awful that the more you know the more you wish you didn't. I think you are doing the right thing not telling them about the genes at this point. Why let them spend any more of their young lives worrying about something that may never happen. There vigiliant enough to pick up on any changes as they've already proven.
The wonder woman title really must go to you lovely. You must just feel like magically disappearing for a while to fairy land with a huge bottle of wine.
I have a wand.....oh and wine.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo