Thats not all of them @arpie thats just immediate Area
im a mother of 3 was stepmom to 4 all
in truth there is 12 plus 11 then theres the step great grandchildren 9 i think
i don’t see them all. Some I’ve had to disengage myself from too hard.
But the ones that bother to keep in touch for the right reasons i am mum/nan
it has certainly made an interesting life
After their father died and my BC i found out who really cared for me.
then theres the related ring-ins theres 4 kids that dont have any grandparent contact so they call me nan. The parents call me aunty
We have started to allocate the food situation going all cold
29 for breakfast and lunch it will be grazing style buffet
its a drain on the purse thats for sure
but i do love getting them all together in one place for good cheer.
This year has been a horror
