Following an email from Giovanna I will ask for this thread to be closed if BCNA agrees.
I have placed this thread ON Health and well being and NOT ON Treamenst and side effects nor on the Metastatic Forum.
To those who have selflessly posted thank you!!
You are right GIovanna I should have not tried to get over the hump of what went on during the week/end by making a quick whip - rude and delusory as it has been described - at not repeating things and adding positive YOUR LIFE comments rather then forming a "high five virtual group" - that was wrong of me.
To the 1500 visitors that came to this site to find support for health and wellbeing, I apologise I could not do better for you.
I should have said this:
It is wrong to respond to Kmakm message ( Page 1) on her journey that ends with " there is a lot of stress in my life and it helps" with Patty J " wow it would be good if we could believe everything we read ....There is nothing you can do to prevent recurrence. I am so angry! I am shaking!"
It is wrong and irresponsible to state on a public forum
" There is nothing you can do to prevent BC recurrence" unless you prefix it with " for me I feel "
or end it with " in everyone".
It is particularly poor to then highlighted, repeated and support it.
It is immature to laugh at data that gives moderate intensity exercise ( which is tough to achieve!) a 30% reduction out of the 20-30 recurrence pool - those numbers are frighteningly close to the benefit we get from AIs.
It is immature and delusory to consider your contribution more significant because you are of age or have more badges.
It is not ok to use an elite marathon athletes horrendous cancer battle after being diagnosed LATE during pregnancy because of confusion over what she felt in her breast as an example of being healthy, you can still get cancer.
It is not ok to banish someone for posting on green tea - the data from Japan supports that.
But mostly I put this on the Moderators.
It is NOT OK for the women who want to exchange freely on exercise, diet and stress reduction to be made feel bad by those who do not believe it is of benefit to them.
The victim argument goes both ways.
In BCNA there should be a place for those who want to talk freely about this topic without being admonished.
( Romla
